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Tips, tricks, and teachings to reference during the matchmaking process.
4 Conditions of Marriage in Islam Every Muslim Must Know
Marriage in Islam is a sacred bond, but it must meet specific conditions to be valid. Do you know the 4 Conditions of Marriage in Islam? From mutual consent and the presence of a Wali to having witnesses and offering Mahr, these requirements ensure your Nikah is both lawful and blessed. Misunderstandings about forced marriages or secret Nikahs can lead to invalid unions. Learn the truth about Islamic marriage rules and how they protect both partners. Ready to find your perfect match? Our expert Muslim matchmakers are here to guide you on your journey to a faith-filled marriage!
6 Essential Muslim Marriage Rules You Must Know Before Saying 'I Do'
Marriage in Islam is more than just love—it's a sacred covenant that completes half your faith. Before saying "I do," it's essential to understand the key Muslim marriage rules that ensure a blessed and harmonious union. From the importance of mutual consent to the role of the wali and the significance of mahr, these six Islamic principles will guide you toward a successful marriage rooted in faith and respect. Ready to find your perfect match? Our expert Muslim matchmakers are here to help!
What Are Things in Islam That Are Absolutely Haram in Relationships?
What makes a relationship truly fulfilling in Islam? It’s not just love or companionship. It’s about building trust, respect, and commitment within the boundaries set by Allah. Islam provides clear Islamic guidelines to ensure relationships honor these principles and protect our dignity.
Swipe Left on Dating Apps: Why Muslim Matchmakers Are the Real Deal
“Let’s be real—finding a life partner these days isn’t exactly a walk in the park. Swipe culture has us chasing matches like it’s a video game, and let’s not even get started on awkward setups that feel like a family reunion gone wrong. But for young Muslims in America, it’s even more complicated. How do you find someone who vibes with you and shares your values? Someone who’s down for deep conversations about life and deen, not just avocado toast?”
Are Dua’s Answered Instantly? A Personal Experience
Feeling stuck at work, unable to solve a tech issue, I paused for Dhuhr prayer. During salah, I poured my heart out in dua, asking Allah (SWT) for guidance. Returning to work, I tried a solution that instantly worked. It was a humbling reminder of the power of sincere dua and trusting Allah.
Sometimes, Allah answers immediately, delays for a better time, or grants something even greater. Our role is to trust, be patient, and remain grateful.
Have you experienced an answered dua in a remarkable way? Share your story in the comments!
What To Look For In A Potential Spouse
Choosing a spouse is a significant decision that requires personal effort and faith in Allah's plan. While we can assess compatibility and shared values, the ultimate outcome rests with Allah. Reflecting on my experience of marrying at 21, I've identified key considerations beyond basic factors like background and lifestyle. These include aligning life visions, ensuring mutual chemistry, understanding each other's mindset, valuing transparency, recognizing non-negotiables, and agreeing on intentions. Balancing worldly and religious aspects is essential, and placing trust in Allah through istikhara can guide us toward a harmonious union.
Navigating the Trenches of Modern Muslim Marriage
In today’s world, finding a spouse as a Muslim can feel like navigating a battlefield. Whether you’re looking online, through friends, or at community events, it seems like the process has become more challenging, and the stakes higher than ever. Both men and women are feeling the pressure — …
Kind Ways to Say No: Thoughtful Messages for Declining Matches and Ending Relationships
Whether you’re declining a match or respectfully ending a relationship, here are some thoughtful messages to help you communicate with kindness and clarity. Use these as-is or tailor them to your situation.
Snapping the Perfect Shot: A Fun Guide to Online Dating Photos
Let’s be real—crafting the perfect online dating profile can feel like preparing for a photoshoot in a high-pressure movie set. With all the angles, lighting, and what-to-wear decisions swirling in your head, how can you possibly capture your fabulous self in just a few pics? Fear not! Here’s a playful guide to help you snap photos that showcase the real you.
Money Talks: How to Plan Your Financial Future with Your Future Spouse
A common mistake when approaching marriage is assuming that things will “sort themselves out” with minimal planning, especially in finances. While some couples may get lucky, it's not a practical approach. Discussing finances with your future spouse is about more than just income and lifestyle. It’s crucial to cover topics like debt, dependents, division of finances, financial habits, and long-term goals. Being honest about these aspects helps ensure that you and your partner are on the same page, reducing potential conflicts down the road.
Introducing Islam to Children in Their Early Years
As Muslim parents, our number one concern when raising our children should always be “How can I ensure I raise good Muslims?”
What Gaza Can Teach Us About Unity
“As a community united by faith, we have repeatedly risen to the challenge of oppression and being outnumbered by our reliance on Allah, and our cohesion as a community. But it is when we turn against ourselves and each other that our strength dissipates and we are overcome by weakness. “
Finding True Love in the Era of Swipe Culture: Why Commitment Matters
“In today’s fast-paced world, the rise of dating apps has revolutionized the way people connect. However, many of these platforms promote a "swipe culture," where the focus is often on casual encounters rather than meaningful relationships. This phenomenon has led to a surge in superficial interactions and fleeting connections, leaving many individuals feeling unfulfilled and still searching for genuine love.”
What Is An Appropriate Relationship Timeline?
“When getting to know someone, it can be difficult to know what steps to take, and more importantly, when.”
The Million-Dollar Question: “Why aren’t you Married Yet?”
“Finding a compatible partner isn’t a science, the short answer to the above: Allah swt has already decreed when each person will get married and whom they will marry- it’s something that goes beyond tick boxes and filtering-by-distance.”
How to Know if You’re Ready for Marriage
“In Islam, marriage is described as a “firm commitment” made between the husband and wife, so that they may find comfort in each other. It is important to set the right intentions when starting to think about marriage: to raise a good family, protecting oneself from haram [Bukhari and Muslim], and providing mutual support and protection.”
Positivity In Relationships
When I asked my husband what positivity in a relationship, and particularly our relationship, means to him, he shrugged and said, "we're just happy, aren't we?"
The Social Media Illusion
“We’ve all been there. We check our phones multiple times a day, for a number of reasons. Some are more important than others. Sometimes, we’re blowing off steam from a heated argument. Other times, we’re simply bored.”
Is Communication Really the Key to a Successful Relationship?
“How many times have we heard that this magical word is the key to any successful relationship? From YouTube couples to Islamic scholars, I can’t even count how many times this has been mentioned as a fundamental building block for marriage and relationships in general.”
Spirituality Within Your Marriage: The Fairy-tale, and the Simple Truth.
“It’s an hour before Fajr and you gently nudge your spouse awake. It’s time for Tahajjud, you whisper. You spring out of bed, there's no time to scroll through Instagram first, you have to start your morning off just right.”